I've always been a big believer that you are either being influenced by others, or you're influencing others.
As I was reading this morning, this idea was reinforced by the words of Erwin McManus:
"While manipulation is inherently evil, influence is the best way to lead and move others toward what is good. The proper use of influence is essential if we are going to seize divine moments. We must always remember that God's greatest moments for us are never for us alone. They are always about our lives touching the lives of others."
Are you being influenced or are you influencing others?
Are you allowing others to dictate what life decisions you are making? Or, are you influencing others in positive ways, ways that are pleasing to God?
Influence... Our lives touching the lives of others... God's greatest moments for us are never for us alone...